Its not the case of whether or not it needs help, its the case of how people handle the situation. If you want a gaming example this time: When i left my old clan, i was pretty sure they would survive, now yes, it is slightly diffrent as i was a very high ranking member, but i held a meeting with all those under and above my 'control'. I held a meeting, and then made an info booklet for each rank on how to handle and continue on with the situation. I felt bad and that i was betraying some people, but i 'grew some chick balls' and faced it head on, no lying, no hiding, no disrespect. I packed my bags, but also packed those for the clan so they could continue flawlessly