Yup yup, pretty much the same way. I never been married of course, but I tend to end up with those who are not into gaming, which is totally fine. They tend to be supportive and look at it as a hobby of mine and will at least dabble in it a bit for my sake, while theirs may be working on cars all day or something (I like doing that too haha). And like them, I would participate in something they are totally into every now and then too. Keeps things balanced. Also helps if the non-gamer understands that gaming is almost like a culture or way of life for some, just like racing cars or writing is that for others. Who knows, there could be a game you both just haven;'t found yet that you can enjoy together