I'm on the forums throughout the day and people seem to be around...I go back and forth with several people quite a bit =) I hope you find better luck soon hun!
lol, I haven't gotten on all too much myself. But, it's just, there isn't enough interest to be on this site compared to others like Facebook or Youtube. :/
This isn't intended to be commercialized and over-advertised like the two aforementioned networking sites. Sadly, they work well. We are here to unite gamers, not comment on how my cat likes watching TV with me lol