im going to step in and represent the girls here... maybe even an attempt at insight. yes we know ur going to say the same thing no matter what, and yes we want the attention. beneath that though. ur being given both a gift and an opportunity ... when a girl says «does this look ok?» she knows it looks more than ok shes not asking shes showing. giving u the opportunity to be even a little blown away by what u have before u and if suitably impressed by her visage you will then be rewarded in ways which i can guarantee you will be able to appreciate. sometimes it isnt insecurity at all sometimes its the opposite. thats where the gift comes in. checking in with you and letting u eyeball her from head to toe is sometimes a girls way of saying .... i'm yours. i show this to you. consider it the female equivalent of being the one who gets to slap u on the *** and have u bring her a beer. there`s a security in that. that you do for her, and all shes really asking you to do is be excited about what you see. theres no downside to that because u wanting and appreciating her will give her both a comfort and a power that can ultimately only benefit you. i know. bizarre creatures we are but like u say ... cant live without em. men and women are different and all the demands of political correctness will never change that but at the end of the day 1 very simple fact remains. for such a small amount of effort to fulfill those bewildering needs of hers. the exchange is in the fact that she will then fulfill yours ... with relish.
you want a sandwich ... she wants «my god ur beautiful» both a sustenance of a sort. you want 4 hours of xbox she wants 30 attempts to find the right shoes ... both freedoms and seperations of a sort. her world. your world. give her hers and you.ll get a lot more of yours.
