MrsParadox760
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Hi I was asked to do this because I hadnt done so when I rejoined XGC in Lookout 2 months ago.
Here is my situation: Back in May I left Havoc because of drama I accidentally was involved in due to other clan mates bashing another clan which wasnt part of XGC. They were a bunch of christian kids 13/14 yrs old. Very sweet kids who also had some other older clan mates which all shared the same clan tag AH for annihilation but was spelt differently or something. My husband was playing with all of them and I was on the couch listening to everyone bash this clan through my husbands turtle beaches. He was getting upset because he knows the rules and was trying to get everyone settled down and to leave the kids alone. I wont use names but there was one clan mate who kept harassing these kids via text and voice msgs as well in game. On our Havoc page on Facebook I simply put something on a post that it wasnt okay to speak to any kids the way some do and we need to show respect and work together. or something along those lines. I didnt use any names during this post on FB except I tagged my general and captain in it so they could see what i wrote. Then one of my clan mates saw the post and started to respond calling himself out on it and calling me terrible names. I was sergeant, just got the Sergeant position after 4 weeks in being with Havoc. My general and captain put me in a private chat to find out what was going on because since I tagged them in it i guess it went to their FB profile page and whoever was in XGC saw it and was wondering what was going on. I didnt know it was going to go to their personal FB page or I wouldnt have tagged them into it. Either way I explained myself and apologized numerous times, but my General wouldnt forgive me and kept on going after me for it over and over again. But seemed to not care about the kids in Havoc who were running their mouth. So as I am in tears and upset I said forget it I left. I was trying to get into another clan in XGC but I was told I had to pay. Im like its been not even 12 hrs why do i have to pay? So then I gave up. But i still gamed with everyone. Well I ended joining another clan full of ex XGC havoc guys who made an elite clan for clan ops so i joined that and did clan ops. except i didnt like it, and then when I was told I could join Lookout I rejoined with them and now 2 months later due to other drama I was called out and having a whole clan try to get me kicked out for something I didnt do. I dont think it was fair at all for a whole clan to side against me. I have done all i can to stay away from them and give them their space. But ppl talk and a lot of ppl started talking about the drama and trying to fight for me to stay in Lookout since I was asked to do this or leave or something.
I know ppl who left Havoc the same time I did or around the time I did and at least one went to the same elite clan I joined, in fact he was the reason why i joined that clan in the first place and recently a few weeks ago found out he was back in Havoc and he was a private and soon was going to be a sergeant and he was back less then 5 days and I know he didnt do the grass is greener page like i am doing. I also heard someone else left Havoc and rejoined and she didnt do the grass is greener. I was told by my section leader that once you leave XGC you are gone UNLESS you do the grass is greener OR ask to switch clans but set it up with your General. I didnt know that and nobody helped me with that or I would have done that from the beginning but in all reality I was trying to have someone help me to join another clan in XGC and again they said I had to pay money. With 4 kids, i wasnt about to pay money to stay in a gaming community when my own kids need shoes and such.
So anyways, here is my story for me to stay in XGC which I have been in for nearly 2 months and recruited like 4 people since I been in here and trying to step up the plate and get that S and hopefully L. But now Im asked to start off as a recruit? I know and understand that I did things the wrong way but why should I continue to be punished for something? Why should I continue to be harassed? Im a good person in my middle 30's. I dont have time for negativity and drama. My clan mates in Lookout all love me and know I work hard to follow the honor code. I think I have been through enough and proved myself worthy in staying in XGC. And no offense, if that drama didnt start with another clan mate who didnt like me using noob tubes this whole thing wouldnt have been an issue. its just certain ppl trying to get me kicked because they didnt like how the drama was situated and she was asked to switch squads.
I pretty sure this is everything, if not feel free to ask me questions.
Thank you, MrsParadox
Here is my situation: Back in May I left Havoc because of drama I accidentally was involved in due to other clan mates bashing another clan which wasnt part of XGC. They were a bunch of christian kids 13/14 yrs old. Very sweet kids who also had some other older clan mates which all shared the same clan tag AH for annihilation but was spelt differently or something. My husband was playing with all of them and I was on the couch listening to everyone bash this clan through my husbands turtle beaches. He was getting upset because he knows the rules and was trying to get everyone settled down and to leave the kids alone. I wont use names but there was one clan mate who kept harassing these kids via text and voice msgs as well in game. On our Havoc page on Facebook I simply put something on a post that it wasnt okay to speak to any kids the way some do and we need to show respect and work together. or something along those lines. I didnt use any names during this post on FB except I tagged my general and captain in it so they could see what i wrote. Then one of my clan mates saw the post and started to respond calling himself out on it and calling me terrible names. I was sergeant, just got the Sergeant position after 4 weeks in being with Havoc. My general and captain put me in a private chat to find out what was going on because since I tagged them in it i guess it went to their FB profile page and whoever was in XGC saw it and was wondering what was going on. I didnt know it was going to go to their personal FB page or I wouldnt have tagged them into it. Either way I explained myself and apologized numerous times, but my General wouldnt forgive me and kept on going after me for it over and over again. But seemed to not care about the kids in Havoc who were running their mouth. So as I am in tears and upset I said forget it I left. I was trying to get into another clan in XGC but I was told I had to pay. Im like its been not even 12 hrs why do i have to pay? So then I gave up. But i still gamed with everyone. Well I ended joining another clan full of ex XGC havoc guys who made an elite clan for clan ops so i joined that and did clan ops. except i didnt like it, and then when I was told I could join Lookout I rejoined with them and now 2 months later due to other drama I was called out and having a whole clan try to get me kicked out for something I didnt do. I dont think it was fair at all for a whole clan to side against me. I have done all i can to stay away from them and give them their space. But ppl talk and a lot of ppl started talking about the drama and trying to fight for me to stay in Lookout since I was asked to do this or leave or something.
I know ppl who left Havoc the same time I did or around the time I did and at least one went to the same elite clan I joined, in fact he was the reason why i joined that clan in the first place and recently a few weeks ago found out he was back in Havoc and he was a private and soon was going to be a sergeant and he was back less then 5 days and I know he didnt do the grass is greener page like i am doing. I also heard someone else left Havoc and rejoined and she didnt do the grass is greener. I was told by my section leader that once you leave XGC you are gone UNLESS you do the grass is greener OR ask to switch clans but set it up with your General. I didnt know that and nobody helped me with that or I would have done that from the beginning but in all reality I was trying to have someone help me to join another clan in XGC and again they said I had to pay money. With 4 kids, i wasnt about to pay money to stay in a gaming community when my own kids need shoes and such.
So anyways, here is my story for me to stay in XGC which I have been in for nearly 2 months and recruited like 4 people since I been in here and trying to step up the plate and get that S and hopefully L. But now Im asked to start off as a recruit? I know and understand that I did things the wrong way but why should I continue to be punished for something? Why should I continue to be harassed? Im a good person in my middle 30's. I dont have time for negativity and drama. My clan mates in Lookout all love me and know I work hard to follow the honor code. I think I have been through enough and proved myself worthy in staying in XGC. And no offense, if that drama didnt start with another clan mate who didnt like me using noob tubes this whole thing wouldnt have been an issue. its just certain ppl trying to get me kicked because they didnt like how the drama was situated and she was asked to switch squads.
I pretty sure this is everything, if not feel free to ask me questions.
Thank you, MrsParadox