IS THIS GIRL ONLY SHY OR NOT INTERESTED?

[Gaming Outlaw]

Okay, it does not hurt me to ask this question. There is a girl at school that I like, but I am not certain about her feelings toward me. Usually in the library she looks at me when I do not know. At least it seems this way. I look at her and she stops. Also, I have seen her biting her lower lip (I have heard that this is a sign). Especially she looks more when I appear busy or with somebody else. She seems to walk faster when she is by me and she seems to fix her clothes (but I think the majority of girls do this depsite their feelings). It seems that she likes me by these actions, but I have doubted it. I have tried to talk to her, but her answers are short usually (yes, no, I don't know) and she talks quietly. Because of this, I thought, "Obviously she does not like me." However, I am not sure now because she continues to do these things. My friends say that she seems very shy, especially more shy because I am more outgoing (?). Opinions? Nothing inappropriate please.

 

[TRu SANDMAN Cd]

i say just give it a shoot man if you like her too ask her out on a date see what she says. that way you will know one way or another if she in to you or not and you will have your answer

 

[KoG Concussed]

yep just give it a shot your gna go nowhere without taking a risk or two lol

 

[XGC Phantom XD]

I agree with the above posts, man up and ask her out. What's the worst that could happen? She says no, who cares. If she says yes then your set. Good luck!

 

[Inked Ivy]

Yeah, she sounds a little shy or too scared to make the first move.

If she says no tell her to keep her eye problem to herself... LoL jokes... No bad idea unless you want to be back handed.

 

[KoG Concussed]

ah yes the tragic backhand lol....... just give it a try (not the joke) like phantom said if she says no who cares

 

[Gaming Outlaw]

hahaa eye problem. Well, thank you everybody. I have never dated a shy girl, so I have been more confused than normal. But thank you.

 

[SYN_Lost_Paradox]

Yup just give a shot, cant hurt anything and best of luck =)

 

[SiLeNt HuNtReSs]

I have a friend exactly like that..She's outgoing but is kinda shy when she's near the guy she likes..Give it go because by the sounds of it she isn't going to make the first move..Aww this is so cute you have to tell us if it goes well..Good luck Outlaw

 

[XGC Amun Ra]

i know everyone else has said it already but yea, give it a go. I mean there really is only one way to find out right?

 

[XGC Coleslaw XI]

ask her to do something casual... it doesn't have to be a fancy date, but see if she wants to go somewhere with you that is common in your area like friends and see where it goes. you can't be scared of her, but at the same time don't assume that she is totally into you. at the same time be confident, know that whether or not she wants to date you, you are still a cool guy and even if you don't get involved with her, that you could be cool friends... confidence is big with the ladies, but don't go on an ego trip

 

[KoG Concussed]

hmmm i think coleslaw said it best here yep no ego trip

 

[Gaming Outlaw]

Hmm I will try to talk with her again at school tomorrow, and we will see what happens. =D O=
Thank you everybody!

 

[The Chosen One]

Well you don't really have anything to lose.

I wouldn't think too much about being in a relationship, sex ect with her as you'll just be very nervous when you do talk to her. Also if things don work out you'll feel pretty disapointed.

Confidense is a big bonus. Do what the politicians do and use body language, hand gestures for example.

Also if ou can make her laugh that is angered start.

I wouldn't ask her out if you haven't really talked to her yet. Instead go up to her on your own when she's with her friends and just chat with them. This shows a hell of a lot of confidense and it makes her feel in control.

If things go well with that then flirt a bit with her. Gauge her reaction. Take it from there, you should know if she's interested or not by then

Good luck either way.
Also confidense

 

[Gaming Outlaw]

Well you don't really have anything to lose.

I wouldn't think too much about being in a relationship, sex ect with her as you'll just be very nervous when you do talk to her. Also if things don work out you'll feel pretty disapointed.

Confidense is a big bonus. Do what the politicians do and use body language, hand gestures for example.

Also if ou can make her laugh that is angered start.

I wouldn't ask her out if you haven't really talked to her yet. Instead go up to her on your own when she's with her friends and just chat with them. This shows a hell of a lot of confidense and it makes her feel in control.

If things go well with that then flirt a bit with her. Gauge her reaction. Take it from there, you should know if she's interested or not by then

Good luck either way.
Also confidense

Of course. I don't plan to ask very fast. Also, I don't understand "sex ect with her as you'll just be very nervous."

 

[The Chosen One]

Just don't think too much about her (sex or w.e) when you haven't got anywhere with her yet. Just focus on chatting with her and making her comfortable around you.

 

[Gaming Outlaw]

Just don't think too much about her (sex or w.e) when you haven't got anywhere with her yet. Just focus on chatting with her and making her comfortable around you.

Oh yeah, that makes sense.

 

[XGC Coleslaw XI]

a.k.a. bow chica wah wah...

 

[SYN Sigma]

I might be late on this, but, try an approach on her level. Don't come on too strong. Think about it as if you were shaking someones hand... you'd want to extend your hand to them and at a nice balanced level with a gentle grip. A grip can define you as a person.

I hope this helps. And whatever you do, avoid a long wait for the "right" moment. Because from the sounds of it, she wants to get to know you.

 

[Gaming Outlaw]

Thank you everybody! We are talking more, and I am certain almost that she likes me. I don't want to ask her "Do you like me?" because it seems too strong. But we'll see.