Well i found out about Xiled Gaming while searching through Bungie's Clans tab. I saw a post and thought i would check out the community and so far it seems relaxed here.
The Post i saw:
Most recruitment posts are long and self-important, so I will attempt to keep it short and sweet. XGC has Destiny based clans. We are a mature gaming community looking for all types of players, whether it be casual, hardcore, or competitive. Being a large community, XGC allows for all types of people to find a home. The most important point I could make about XGC is that it is what you make of it. If you are simply looking for additional people to play a variety of games, we have thousands of active members. If you are super competitive and wish to be the best, we have elite teams that hold tryouts for anyone who believes they are worthy. We also have an evolving community that allows for promotions if you wish to lead. We have almost everything for almost everyone, and an understanding group of leaders that are there to bring together a community, not micro-manage each individual person. If you feel that this is something you would wish to be a part of, and if you are as excited about Destiny as we are you can find us at XiledGaming.com