XGC Kramer
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People can vary so much in appearance! tall people, short people; dark people, light people; people both sharp and slow; agile and clumsy; introverted and extroverted; independant and totally dependant. Everybody has their own life's stories, their own reasons for being who they are today. Some claim to be who they are simply due to their parents, others can describe a long process of events leading up to the creation they are today: when prompted with the right questions.
And we all have so very different interests and inspirations. When two people see an animal, one may be practically forced to scream with glee and try to hold it; while the other may break out in a cold sweat and be struck with total fear and horror. Is it because a cute little bunny nearly killed the horrified person? i doubt it; and yet they're still horrified. Could the person, so happy to see the bunny, have been given one as a present when they were young, by a very important person in their life?
We all meet people everyday, we interact with em and speak to them for various reasons; but how often do we really get to know what makes that person tick? How often do we take the time to really get to know how a person functions, why they do what they do, why they care about what they care about...and how often do we take the time to realize those questions in our own lives?
Before another person can learn about who we are, and how we became who we are; we have to find out for ourselves those very questions, who are we? Maybe i'm just biased as an introvert, but those questions are so utterly fascinating to me; and they allow others to see you not simply as you appear, but as you understand yourself.
People are who they are, supposedly, based on what you hear from those close to you growing up. You gain a sense of your self based on others' criticism of you, and eventually you think of yourself around those words; but if you can peer into your past, and find examples of why you are who you are, why you became what you are: you can gain the ability to shape your own opinion of yourself, and tell others who you are. Not everybody will be able to completely understand or know you, still; but it's a step towards knowing yourself, and giving others' a greater opportunity to get to know the real you.
Whether you're male or female, friend or stranger; i'd love to hear your story. It's never boring for me, nomatter how long it takes to feel you've said all you desire. Nomatter how big the message, or how long the conversation: i'd enjoy hearing it. Others who like you, who truly want to know you, will too.
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And we all have so very different interests and inspirations. When two people see an animal, one may be practically forced to scream with glee and try to hold it; while the other may break out in a cold sweat and be struck with total fear and horror. Is it because a cute little bunny nearly killed the horrified person? i doubt it; and yet they're still horrified. Could the person, so happy to see the bunny, have been given one as a present when they were young, by a very important person in their life?
We all meet people everyday, we interact with em and speak to them for various reasons; but how often do we really get to know what makes that person tick? How often do we take the time to really get to know how a person functions, why they do what they do, why they care about what they care about...and how often do we take the time to realize those questions in our own lives?
Before another person can learn about who we are, and how we became who we are; we have to find out for ourselves those very questions, who are we? Maybe i'm just biased as an introvert, but those questions are so utterly fascinating to me; and they allow others to see you not simply as you appear, but as you understand yourself.
People are who they are, supposedly, based on what you hear from those close to you growing up. You gain a sense of your self based on others' criticism of you, and eventually you think of yourself around those words; but if you can peer into your past, and find examples of why you are who you are, why you became what you are: you can gain the ability to shape your own opinion of yourself, and tell others who you are. Not everybody will be able to completely understand or know you, still; but it's a step towards knowing yourself, and giving others' a greater opportunity to get to know the real you.
Whether you're male or female, friend or stranger; i'd love to hear your story. It's never boring for me, nomatter how long it takes to feel you've said all you desire. Nomatter how big the message, or how long the conversation: i'd enjoy hearing it. Others who like you, who truly want to know you, will too.
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