WHO AM I?

SYN Ashley

SYN Ashley

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I felt like talking about something that has been on my mind and my heart for quite some time now, and I hope that by the end of this, you all might have better insight to me, and who I really am.

So who am I?

I am Ashley Hays.
I'm 20 years old, from Midwest City, Oklahoma. I take care of my father and go to school full time and hold a part-time job. I try to live my life by faith as much as I can, and will not hesitate to break out into song if the moment presents itself. I love watching the history channel, and I enjoy reading. I'm just a person, who enjoys the simplicities of life.

However, I feel that some of you may have a misconception about who I am, and I really don't know how I feel about that.

To a clan devoted to keeping the peace, and attempting to provide for a 'drama-free' environment, there are those of you who surprise me, extremely so. Hypocricy at its finest, I think.

A misconception happens when a person believes in a concept that is objectively false. If you have never met me, spoken to me, or been in contact with me, then you do not know me, and you forfeit any and all opinions about me. It is unfair to judge someone whom you do not know, especially if you have made no attempts to know.

Everyone has some kind of misconception. This postulates to "No one has perfect knowledge" and "no one has a perfect mental representation of the world." You do not know everything just because you think you do. And you do not know me, just because your friends tell you something bad about me.

I feel like some of you may have a problem. Maybe you don't want to let go of the misconceptions because the false concepts may be deeply ingrained in you. Maybe you don't like to be proven wrong and will continue to cling to these misconceptions even in the face of evidence to the contrary.


Whatever the reason, please know this.
I am a person, with feelings.
I bleed just like you.
And I want to ask you this:

How would you feel if you were in my position?
How would you feel if someone you loved were in my position?

Everyone makes mistakes, but we are not to be defined by those errors made in our pasts.
We should rather, be continuously defined by our present.
And if I have ever hurt you or offended you in any way, please, accept my sincerest apologies.

It was never, and is never my intention to do such.

And if you care to get to know me now, please add me on xbox.
Let me show you who I really am.



Thank you for reading.​
 
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Nepenthe Amity

Banned
Deep, And it does come to show you How "Smart" People really are.

I Am Like that too, it gets annoying when someone judges you way before they even know who you are.

Everyones Human, Everyone Has a Right to do what they want (Besides Modding your Xbox/XBOX 360, that will get you banned from here and XBL).

And it does come to me, i see it daily, when im playing a game and there are females playing it, every single time i see that, i say to myseld "I told you, Females can be gamers too"

Its that that gets me annoyed, just because they're females, doesnt mean they have to be treated differently.

Everyone Needs To Be Treated Equally. End of Story.

:cool:​
 
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iTz DeLta

New member
I tend to just not care what people think and just enjoy myself, that was quite a dramatic intro if u dont mind me saying. lol :D
 
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RGC DRIFTER FV

New member
Well put, Ashley. Your writing was very deep and quite intriguing. Based on some of the content, it seems that you have a lot on your plate in "real life," so I hope the XG community provides some semblance of a break for you, albeit a temporary one.

Shoot me a friend request sometime and we can get back to our Swat domination. I promise not to send All Star any party invites ;)
 
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Widowmaker313

New member
Delta, dramatic intro? Ashley is willing to tell it like it is and show the hardships in life. She has true wisdom, and seems like triple(?) mature most people her age, I admire her strength and courage
 
SYN Ashley

SYN Ashley

New member
it was just a rant of sorts. and i really do appreciate all the responses. and widow, i think what delta meant by "dramatic" was not in the sense that you assume. i think he was referring to my use of dramatic vocabulary to tell my story.

in any case.
thanks guys.

<3
 
SYN Ashley

SYN Ashley

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KoG DRIFTER XD said:
Well put, Ashley. Your writing was very deep and quite intriguing. Based on some of the content, it seems that you have a lot on your plate in "real life," so I hope the XG community provides some semblance of a break for you, albeit a temporary one.

Shoot me a friend request sometime and we can get back to our Swat domination. I promise not to send All Star any party invites ;)
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haha you know i love smallstar!

but yes, we need to kick some halo butt!

:D
 
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Draken Dragon

New member
you don't disco? onnnnn.... i figured you were a disco fiend.

most people, including myself, don't even know themselves, so how should i, as well as them, expect to know others? i don't know how i'll act in certain situations? how should you? so don't judge based on what you hear or see, especially someone as nice as ashley, because you'll never be in her shoes, or mine. because they're not made to fit you.
 
SYN Ashley

SYN Ashley

New member
aww dd.

ive just nicknamed you.

get over it.

and this post was made so long ago, its a wonder that you even found it.

but thanks. :D
 
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