lol yah i understand that but you cant control others but its still a good gesture to apologize cause some friends are very rude. and honestly if he wants a really competitive clan i'm sure he could get one started here or get a group together that is good enough cause honestly there is no clan dedicated to competitiveness its just groups in the clan themselves that make it competitive. but pushing never helps as long as he knows the offer is there and you don't let him forget its good